by Kathy Baldwin Some women just know how to pull off a perfect social gathering, whether its an elegant soiree complete with crystal and linens or an afternoon backyard garden party. Armed with a repertoire of successful dinner party recipes, its possible to create an event that everyone will remember. For others, it just does not seem to be that easy. What makes a great party? First and foremost, it will be you, the hostess, who makes it happen. You can develop a sense of style and